NOTE : This is more of a story which I started writing. I'm afraid it's still not finished! But, it's presented here, as it is, in it's unfinished way.

This second trip to Moldova started off with the usual waiting for my boss to tell me it's OK to take holiday again. Due to the usual delays which accompany this, the airfare prices had again jumped $500, repeating the situation at christmas. Still, I prefer to pay the ticket prices rather than stay in Nebraska the whole summer and die of boredom.

Then followed the visa acquisition process. I assumed this would be easier this time, as both I, and my visa agent, had done this before, and I noted there was even a special 'invitation request form' on the visa agents web site, for foreign citizens who wanted a Moldovan visa.

Well, I applied 2 months in advance this time. After 1 month had passed, I had heard nothing. I had to make many requests for information to my visa agent, which was met with a lot of "I don't know what is happening" type of emails. Good he was truthful, but I was not pleased to have just purchased an expensive airline ticket which would be rendered useless if I didn't happen to get a visa! One of the most agonizing parts of this process is the having to purchase the ticket before applying for the visa.

Eventually I took matters into my own hands, and found a travel agency in Moldova which also got invitations for tourists. Perfect!! This place was found relatively simply by typing "Moldova invitation" into www.google.com, and reading the results. Not too difficult. (Thanks Radu!)

I passed this information to my visa agent, who magically told me that "he now had word" that the invitation that he was getting for me would be done in a few days and that I didn't have to bother with this Moldovan place.

It turns out that my visa agent had "some guys in Moscow" organizing my visa, and they had "some troubles" getting it". After sending my visa agent news of the Moldovan invitation issuing place, the "guys in Moscow" seemed to organize the invitation rather quickly.

After several days, the agency in Moldova sent me a copy of the invitation. I had agreed not to use this agency, and to wait for my visa agent instead. Well, it turns out the "guys in Moscow" had used this Moldovan agency to get my invitation.

So basically, I paid some guy(s) to sit around and do nothing for a month, while I fretted and worried. Only when the threat of cancellation was upon them, did they use the alternative source I myself found to get me what I asked for.

At least they did not charge me any extra fees this time. Probably the potential loss of repeat business started to dwell on them.

Anyway, once the invitation was sorted out, the visa was acquired quite quickly. I actually got it 2 weeks before I was due to depart, instead of the day before like last time. No more gray hairs on account of worrying about my visa this time!

During my internet searches for all things Moldovan, I came across this book

"Playing the Moldovan's at Tennis"

I promptly brought it, and am damn glad I did. It's by a guy called Tony Hawks, who I'd never heard of before. Apparently he had once hitchhiked around the circumference of Ireland, with a fridge, to win a 100 pound bet he made when drunk. This book was about a sober bet he made with a friend of his, that he could not beat the entire Moldovan national football (soccer) team at tennis.

Anyway, the book is really good. In the book, he goes to Moldova. It was a very interesting read for me. His view on Moldova was a little different from my first trip. He was of the western view of things, whereas I was trying hard to see the Moldovan side of things on my first trip. I'm afraid this book has influenced me a little on my 2nd trip, as I can now see the western side of things too, and some of the Moldovan things seem quite strange, and have indeed made me complain more than last time. However, complaining does not mean not having a good time at all, and having a good time has indeed been accomplished on this Moldovan trip, too.

Anyway, as the book cover says, even if you hate tennis, and couldn't find Moldova on a map, you'd still enjoy this book.

The day of departing to Moldova finally arrived, and depart I did. For some reason the check in guy at the airport decided to put me in the very last row of seats of the airplanes I flew on. This was new for me. I sat next to a guy who initially seemed friendly, and who chatted about how he likes to be booked into the last row of seats on all flights, because he really finds the lack of space on planes uncomfortable, and he hates flying because of this, and because no one else usually sits in the last row of seats.

This then led him to ask why I was in the last row of seats, and I said I had no idea. The conversation really seemed to be him venting his frustration of me sitting in the last row of seats too, and spoiling his good idea of having more room to himself on the terribly unconformable 1.5 hour flight he was forced to endure. He seemed not to think that going to Moldova was a good idea, because to him, 1.5 hours of flight was more than he could bear.

I had to wait 6 hours in the Ohio airport, which was not too bad. I had purchased Tony Hawks other book about traveling around Ireland with a fridge, because his other book was damn good, and I missed his writing style. It was a thoroughly enjoyable book, and the only concern I had while reading it was "what happens if I finish reading it before my flight? Won't I get bored?"

Then, onto a plane to Paris. In the last row of seats, which was OK, because despite the fact that the seats only recline a little way compared to the others, there was only one other seat next to mine, and a toilet right next to us. Also, plenty of space beside me to put stuff, as well as an additional small space behind my seat to put stuff as long as the seat wasn't reclined.

I didn't sleep on the flight, but came to the conclusion that if you just relax your body a bit, close your eyes and pay attention to the images flashing through your mind, it has the same affect as sleep, and I left the plane feeling very awake.

The Charles de Gaul airport is not very pretty. It smells like dog crap. The security is not too good. The people really are quite rude. Some of them really do smell. There are no signs to direct you to where you need to go. There are however sexy French girls wearing baggy white t-shirts who speak english who can direct you to where you approximately need to be (and who must be quite well paid, because they are not rude at all. Or maybe they just save the rudeness for later, on the streets of Paris, when it is really needed).

Where I needed to be was waiting for a bus, which took me through the airport, where planes, and even several French concords, were only meters away, and if I got off the bus, and ran a little way, I could easily touch one. The lack of security guards and the bored look of the ones I did see did not help me feel especially secure. The sign on the bus saying it was forbidden to exit the bus between bus stops would probably not stop a determined terrorist, or even an eager non-French-sign-reading tourist who wanted a closer look at the planes.

I got into a crappy terminal, brought some stuff with some Euros, and felt very proud of myself. Then I just had to wait for the flight to Moldova.

And . . the flight to Moldova was OK. I was in the front this time. The plane was not full, and I had a row of seats to myself. Very nice. I slept a little bit on this plane. I even saw the Eiffel tower on take off, and got a sort of photograph of it.

Immigration at Moldova was less scary this time. I knew that the officers were going to be grumpy looking, and they were. The baggage arrived quicker than in winter, and it was off through customs. Some guy wanted to search me, and I opened my bags. After seeing only clothes on the top layer of both my bags, and not the boxes of illegal drugs he expected to see, he said oh, that's all fine", and didn't bother to rummage through anything and instead sent me on my way.

I met Dorina, who was happy to see me, which was a bonus for me! After fending off 6 or so would-be taxi drivers, I found the bathrooms and there was a cleaning lady in there. Just normal, apparently.

We fended off more taxi drivers to make our way to the shuttle bus, which for a mere 4 lei (about 30 cents), would take us downtown, where we would change shuttles, and for another 4 lei, take us to our apartment. Ha ha, taxi drivers who wanted to rip us off by charging us $8 for a ride.

The apartment in which we stayed is a subject of much wailing and gnashing of teeth for me. I am not proud of making Dorina cry several times over the next several days. I am not proud of complaining about the conditions. I am not proud of my easy life of luxury compared to the Moldovan's which lead me to complain about these conditions. I am not proud that I am inconsiderate and I am not proud that I cannot control sustain even these moderately uncomfortable conditions and realize that things (probably) are worse in other parts of the world (maybe).

However, some things I have gotten used to in my life, and although they may not be absolutely essential to living, they are difficult for me to do without in my trained state.

One of those things, is, unless camping, or in Africa, or some other place where conditions don't easily permit it, cold water should be available.

I think this was the biggest thing.

The others are details, but again, unless conditions prevent them, they should be available. A fridge, and hot water. Understandably, when camping, or in a village, these things might not be available to you. But we were in an apartment in a reasonably sized city. There was no fridge, there was no hot water, and there was NO COLD WATER!

I couldn't understand this at all. We weren't in the middle of a desert, we weren't on safari in a jungle (where water probably would have been anyway). We weren't even in some small isolated village. Where was the cold water??

It maybe wouldn't have been so bad if the apartment looked in good repair and perhaps the lack of cold water was just a temporary thing. The apartment was a total wreck. The floor in the bedroom consisted of warped floor boards. The hallway and kitchen had bricks, some of which were broken, revealing the concrete underneath. This concerned me, as the entire apartment block is made of concrete, and here we are, one layer of concrete blocks torn up revealing concrete underneath. How much more concrete was between us and the floor below us? The only room with a normal floor was the living room, which was actually Dorina's roommates room. The apartment building was a total wreck. There was one light on our entire floor in the hallway, which happened to be outside our door. The rest of the corridors were completely dark. There was no glass in the windows in the stairway, and cracked concrete made up the walls of the rest of the place. I couldn't understand where I was, or why. Dorina had looked at several other apartments, saying they were worse than this one, before spending $70 for a months rent, and spending a week painting and cleaning it for my benefit. The place looked like the cold water would never work again, and this was really not making me happy.

It did have a nice view of parts of the city, being on the 16th floor. And the bed was comfortable. The electricity worked, the gas worked, and the phone worked, too. However, I think I could do without those things, and trade them for the ability to have a wash.

Having a wash after 24 hours of flying is definite must for all travelers I know. And here I was, without this ability. You couldn't even flush the toilet, and being as hot as it was in this apartment, this was not a good thing.

If most Moldovan's lived like this, I could indeed understand why this was deemed “a poor country”. This was terrible. Dorina felt happy that at least I understood this point, this time, because apparently she had felt distressed from my last visit when I said that Moldova "wasn't too bad”.

Anyway, luckily she had collected water into bowls, which could be heated by the still functioning gas oven, and facilitate the means of washing airline crap away from me.

I spent a week in this apartment, and my memories are few. It was damn hot. I sweated constantly. I desperately wanted to buy an electric fan, and Dorina seemed almost reluctant to let me do this, but finally after a day or so we did. I spent most of the time in the apartment in front of this fan, because if I went anywhere else, I started to sweat instantly, and I was also quite afraid of the other rooms. 3 washes a day were required of me. After a time in front of the fan, due to the heat and the lack of places to sit in front of fans in other rooms, (or places to sit at all) I would fall asleep. The cold water started to work reliably, which made me somewhat happier, but the other deficiencies of the apartment made themselves more apparent to me. Dorina said I would always find something to complain about no matter where I lived, and I started to think maybe she was right, and that somehow I was deficient in the good-natured areas of my personality.

A fridge arrived on my second day there. Very small, and like most other things in this apartment, didn't work very well.

We ate out everyday that I stayed at that apartment, mostly because I was afraid of the kitchen. It was hot, there was no space in the fridge to keep stuff, and there often was not water to clean the dishes you have used while cooking, or even to wipe the table clean.

I think on my 2nd or 3rd day one of the elevators stopped working, leaving only a small, 4 person elevator working, and a long line of people waiting for it. This made me really quite depressed. I sat outside looking very miserable, understanding very well why every Moldovan I came across looked so grumpy. They felt like me. They had to ensure this no water business and no elevator business too.

I pleaded with Dorina to find us another place to live. I was prepared to pay a lot. She said it was difficult. I said just look anyway. She complained some more about all the time it would take. Well, compared to spending my holiday in that apartment, I would look all day. Eventually I told her that it couldn't be too hard. Just call a few places from the newspaper, and we'll jump in the taxi and have a quick look at them. Eventually, she conceded and we looked for another place.

My mood improved a little in this week, and I wondered if perhaps I could survive living in this place after all. I wasn't about to reveal this to Dorina, though, who might jump at the chance to stay in her careful chosen apartment which she worked so hard to prepare for me. But, no, another apartment would still be better. For $70, I could have water again. We saw one place, far away, but relatively nice, for the same price, and I thought if we could find a place like this, only closer to town, it would be perfect.

One day, both elevators stopped working. We took the stairs to the 16th floor. The stairs were small, and it was relatively easy to get up them, to my surprise. I wasn't so bothered by the elevators anymore, (the didn't look like they should be operational in the first place, such was their crap condition) but it would still be nicer to be away from this apartment. My real joy started when I was washed and we were leaving to go outside. I got depressed when Dorina said it was time to go home. I really didn't like that apartment at all!

It's quite strange that Dorina and her roommate didn't seem to sweat at all, and didn't seem to think even the slightest bad thing about this place. To them it was perfectly livable. I don't understand even now their mentality. That place was crap, and people shouldn't stand for it. Once Dorina swatted a fly in our room, and plaster fell off the walls. Not just a little bit either.

It's also a bit of a shame Dorina didn't look a bit longer for more apartments, because for a bit more effort, she could have found a perfectly clean one and not have spent so much time cleaning this crappy one which I condemned to hell so quickly after my arrival anyway. To be fair, she wasn't used to looking for apartments, and having seen 2 crappier ones before this, it would be easy to conclude that this apartment was the best she would find. Plus, I was demanding she find us a place, so I would not be “sleeping on the street” as I told her. I also told her off for her apparent lack of motivation. Well, now I see what that got me, so next time I think I'll be a bit nicer about it. Still, also, next time Dorina will be more aware of the variety of apartments available, so won't settle for less. Although I still get the feeling that quality is not high on many Moldovan's lists of priorities. Next time, eh?

We visited Dorina's old apartment to see her old landlord a few times, and that apartment looked like a luxury place. My first impression when I saw that place last December was it was a bit run down, but it got to be cozy after a couple of days. After our new apartment, it really was luxury. It was still quite hot inside though.

Anyway. We eventually saw some more apartments. One was quite nice, just across the road, still very close to the markets (another good point about our apartment – that makes, er, two good points about it). No hot water, but it was clean, and in a shady place. Still only $70 a month. I liked it. But not Dorina, for some reason. We had a talk about it, but her reasons for not liking it turned out to be something quite different that would I might have thought. We looked at another place, a house. I was wondering “why would people rent their house??” A lot of people were sat outside, looking grumpy, behind a fence. We asked them if this was the place for rent (well, rather, Dorina did, because they didn't know English). A friendly looking man came out from among the grumpy, and eagerly showed us a small apartment attached to the main house. Aha! The Moldovan's have duplexes too! This was a good idea. The place was small, but clean, and had hot water, thanks to a gas furnace and hot water cylinder. I liked the place, but wasn't sure about the grumpy people outside.

Anyway, the landlords at the other places we were due to see where not home, so we went to town. After some discussion a bit later, Dorina decided that this small duplex would be very nice for us, so in her usual way of making it sound like something that I wanted and not her, we agreed to call and take it. Hooray!

Later on in that day, we revisited this small duplex, discussed with the landlord some details, and agreed it was a nice place. We could move in on Thursday, after leaving a $20 deposit. Today was Tuesday, did this mean we would have to stay in the dreaded old apartment two more nights? I don't think so. I would prefer to stay in the village than that place again . . .

The next day we went to see Dorina's mum in the village. In January we visited this place too, and I had a rather nasty and unexpected asthma attack, which left my status as an animated and breathing human being in doubt for a night. But, as predicted, the village was indeed better in summer than winter.

The village in summer is not too bad. I was epically impressed at being able to use more than one room in Dorina's mum's house. The house is pretty big, and quite nice. I spent a lot more time outside too, playing with the village animals, which was most amusing. My most enjoyable experience was eating dinner, at an actual table, and having Dorina's mum's homemade vodka wine. I think it is vodka with cherry's in it or something. It was still hot in the village, but I was adjusting to the heat a bit now, and it wasn't too terrible. We had a wash in a separate room with bowls and heated water, and that was OK. I attempted once to have a shower outside when it started to rain, but the rain was surprisingly cold!

When we returned to Chisinau, I was in a hurry to move out of the crappy apartment. As usual, Dorina put up a lot of resistance for some unknown reason. I think perhaps she thought I didn't appreciate her apartment finding & decorating efforts. I should have been a bit nicer, but there is a certain amount of shock to overcome at arriving in a foreign country and being stuck in a hot apartment with no cold water.

Once we finally agreed to move, moving was completed very quickly. And so with the help of some taxi's, into the new apartment we moved.

This new apartment was beautiful. It reminded me of a small motel room. It was small, but in my eyes, heaven. Outside our door were gorgeous sunflowers, and the grumpy people I saw on our previous visit turned out to be our landlords wife and his son and daughter in law, and they were splendidly un-grumpy this time.

The apartment was not so hot, and we could get a great breeze blowing through it. Terrific stuff.

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Note, this is where my original story ended. It's now more than six months after this trip, and I have reconstructed some events from notes I took while there. So they may be a bit out of order and seem unconnected!

On to part 2 of the story!

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